Last year, I visited one of my peers after hearing she was unwell. When I arrived at her home, my heart broke. She was bedridden, extremely weak, and had lost a lot of weight. I could hardly believe what I was seeing.
But what hurt even more was not just her illness — it was the fear and stigma surrounding her.
People in the community were scared of her because of her weight loss. Rumours were spreading that she had been poisoned by village people. Instead of support, she faced isolation. She did not go to the hospital because she had no money, and she felt ashamed of her condition. She had lost her confidence.
I knew I could not stand by and do nothing.
As a trained volunteer with KPAC, I contacted KPAC immediately. We arranged for a vehicle to pick her up. When it was time to move her, everyone was too afraid to carry her. So I took courage. I carried my friend into the vehicle myself.
At the hospital, I spoke to the nurse on her behalf. She was admitted and put on a drip. I stayed close to her, supporting her through those difficult first days.
Later, I met with her family. We had a deep and honest conversation. I explained what Tuberculosis (TB) is and how it affects the body. I educated them about the two types of TB:
- Pulmonary TB – which affects the lungs and can spread through the air when a person coughs or sneezes.
- Extra-pulmonary TB – which affects other parts of the body and is usually not contagious.
I helped them understand that TB is caused by bacteria — not by poisoning, curses, or witchcraft. TB is treatable. TB is curable. But only if a person seeks medical help early.
It was a roller coaster for us as young women. But we fought for her rights.
She had the right to live.
She had the right to access health services.
She had the right to dignity and support.
Through education and persistence, her family began to understand. They started supporting her treatment. Slowly, she regained her strength.
Today, my friend is no longer bedridden. She has joined our TB support group. Together, we are now trained advocates supporting communities. We help link clients to TB and HIV testing services so they can know their status early and receive proper care.
We teach communities about healthy living, early screening, and ending stigma.
My friend now shares this message:
“If you are continuously coughing, please go for TB screening”
Her voice is now strong. Her story is powerful.